I never believed "what comes around goes around",until I experienced it first hand. I chatted with this young lady off and on for 2 yrs. During the last month of chatting she told me that she wanted to leave her current boyfriend and be with me(because I was so sweet)This was even before she ever met me..** clue #1....So we met and she left him, it was an ugly situation and he vowed that he would get me back 100x worse. Foreshadowing i guess.. Well for 6 months "Jamie"(my gf), stayed at my place every weekend with her 5 year old daughter.(they lived about an hour away from me).Phone calls everyday 2-3 times a day. I heard "i love you" everyday for those 6 months, like 10x a day.We talked about marriage,me adopting her daughter,and me moving closer to her, naming our first born.So needless to say it was quite serious. Well , Mother's Day weekend they stayed and everything seemed great, then I didn't hear from her for 2 days. Which was very abnormal. Finally on the following Tuesday, I got a "Dear John" email. It stated that we went too fast and it was her, and that it was nothing that I did to make her feel this way , and she needed time. So I wrote her back, because she wouldn't take my calls. And she assured me that it wasn't because of another man or anything that I did. I had no choice but to believe her right?...Well.. the next day, I out of the blue remember her password to her hotmail account(see we "trusted" each other to give our passwords to each other. So i reluctantly went in her email and saw that she had been exchanging emails with her ex for about a month or so. I knew they had been in contact but i didn't know to what extreme... Well, her "ex" was doing and saying everything possible to get her back. And it work...She left me to go back to him.... So what comes around goes around.... BUT I did get some redemption, after her ex found out that she left me and wanted him back, he told her that,"it was all a plot to get revenge on me for her leaving him, and that he didn't really want her at all."
So lessons learned.. and i am a much wiser person.Lesson being ya never really know anyone do ya ??..So if you chatting with a "jamie" from Lansing... be careful...lol
