Ari Riekes cyber romeo from Omaha/Chicago

[toonaive]

He thought I was married but he still gave me his heart online. Gave me his heart! He was so into me. Very sexual. Then he took off after we had phone sex. He's just a player, a great storyteller. After he is done with you that's it.

[alwayschasingrainbows]

I know him. He has no soul. No heart, no sense of right and wrong, no concious. He has no soul!

[Blithe89]

If you have encounterd him I'm sorry for your luck. But you are not the only one. Sometime ago a girl was in a Yahoo chat room looking for him and we shared stories. Between us we concluded this: His real name is Ari David Riekes. He used to live in Chicago but now lives in Omaha Nebraska. His real age is 34 years old. He wasn't married when I or she encountered him so why he does what he does is a mystery. He didn't seem to date much if at all. He uses 1-3 pictures of what looks like the same man. We could only conclude that he may have some sort of mental issues. He's not looking for a one night fling but his goal seems to be phone sex. He will take months to get you to fall for him and have the phone sex. After a few times he becomes distant eventually developing a new online persona. He may have many woman at one given time that he is online courting. He'll tell you that you are the only one but our time with him overlapped. He makes all these elaborate plans to meet but never fufills them. He always has an excuse as to why any given week won't work out after all. After each affair he changes his email and chat names and profiles. We counted in one year he had at least 5 of each one. He uses Yahoo, Aol, MSN chats. He uses those and cox, ittbi and kent emails.  He uses several dating services but again never dates. When he is into you he is there every night. He likes weird cybersex and has a bad temper. Not to mention you can't trust a word he says. He's usually upfront about his name but will use the name David for the first week until he says he trusts you. He says his height is 5'11 to 6'1 and his weight is " a little out of shape" or something like that. His hair is blonde to lt brown and blue eyes. He never asks for money. Just a phone number. That's his goal, that's his game. Cybersex. No matter what he says about caring for you or you being the only one. That's what we have encountered. Better luck to you.

[ptmints]

I know Ari and his friends. They think nothing of yelling out terms like "shiksas" ( which means a non-jewish female-deragatory) or "shagitz"  (which means a young person who is not jewish as in a bar full of non-jews). I have heard them do this first person. They think it's funny and can do it because Jews are better people than non-jews. You will never break him/them of this because it is a jewish cultural thing. Yet, shiksas are good enough for a one night stand to them.

For Ari, for many jewish men, they are good enough to play with but never good enough to marry. Yet Ari likes to immerse himself in the non-jewish world often. Online apparently, and off.

I would say that his biggest problem is his lack of compassion. If he stayed completely in his jewish world he would not need it. But he doesn't and he, being jewish or spoiled as the youngest or teased by his friends constantly, does not know it! He can be empathetic, he can be kind...but never tolerant or compassionate. Given certain situations, especially with regards to women,  this is his biggest flaw.

This is the reason he is still single all these years.

[Evefromthehood]

Cheat Predictor #1
Was he spoiled as a kid?
Do his parents tend to baby him and help him out of financial jams?
Has he ever bragged about cheating on an exam or paying someone to write a paper for him in college?
If your man seems to have sailed through life without ever hitting the rough waters that rock the rest of us, beware. Privileged chaps tend to suffer from a sense of entitlement (read: bratty-boy syndrome), so he may believe that the rules don't apply to him. He's so used to getting what he wants, why should he stop now?
"He might cheat because he thinks he deserves to fulfill all of his needs, no matter who he might hurt," says Shirley Glass, Ph.D., a psychologist, infidelity expert and author of the forthcoming "Not Just Friends: Protecting Your Relationship from Infidelity and Healing from the Trauma of Betrayal." "He probably has little concept of how upset you would be if you found out because he's too self-centered to think about your feelings."
So how do you know if your have-it-all hunk has other women on his wish list? Glass suggests paying attention to how he copes when he's confronted with any bad behavior on his part. Does he regret getting caught forwarding your racy emails to his friends but feel no guilt for doing it in the first place? Does he blame others when he screws up rather than take responsibility himself? If he can't see how his actions affect others, he's not likely to say, "Whoa, what about my girlfriend?" when temptation strikes.