charmer in wolves skin - mattie of sweden/NY

i met Mattie in feb. of 1999, he seemed harmless enough. slowly over time we fell in love, or least i did. that spring i offered to meet. he refused due to personal probs, actually he was in sweden not NY like he said. then he "moved" to arkansas, i offered to meet again, but still more "personal" probs an suddenly he took another job in sweden an off again. he was due back the followin aug. then he informed me he wasn't comin back an whole time been workin to get long term livin permit for there even before he took off for sweden. promise broken after i had made all the preps an everythin to make room for him. he told me, no promissed me, i could visit in spring, then took that back days before i bought the plane tickets. he refused to use a phone to talk to each other even.

then he fell inlove with his female "roommate" an she with him. neither wanted a relatioship with eachother, they said, but they both lied repetivtially to me bout their feelins an what they doin. then he dropped me a couple wks before "schedualed" return to states again, for her cause she was uncomfortable an worried that i might come between em. even after volenteerin to let her move into my home till she could find her own place near by so they wouldn't b far apart, seein they've been "best friends" sense age of 10 an always livin together or near. i've had some talks with him after, with him claimin at no time did he know: i was sad or lonely, his adviodance made me feel truely unwanted, my wants felt unimportant to him when i voiced em. he also claims i never let him know how i felt like my voiced disapointment, beggin, grovelin, an tears weren't enough to let him know i wasn't happy bout things he did?

girls u see some1 named Mattie in a chat room i advise u to stay clear of the lil charmer he seems cute an innocent enough but is hidin alot undernieth.

also all the stories of places an ppl he knows in his life i have yet to find any evidance of any of it bein real.