I meet a man two years ago in Excite chat. Over the years we became good friends....exchanging emails daily, chatting, Christmas cards, christmas presents, birthday presents......spent a couple hundred dollars on each other. He'd tell me over and over how much he likes me and he thinks there is a chance for something more between us. He offered to pay for trips for me to come and see him and when things went well he'd take me to meet his parents.
He told me countless times how much he likes me and that he cares about me. He'd swore there was no other girl he was working on meeting or starting anything with. Amazing how much a man can lie...and how he can keep up the BS for two years.
Well his mistake was when he gave me his email password. BIG mistake. I busted him....he told me he didn't offer to take anyone else but me with him on a trip...well I found an email in there from another girl telling him she couldn't make it. She signed it...Your girl. SO he has been playing me and at least 1 other girl for who knows how long.
I am feeling incredibly stupid right now. I thought he was my friend and that he was always honest with me. I trusted him completely and now that is shattered.
I guess it was stupid of me to think a man would actually care that much about me. For men it's all a game....see how many women they can screw over and then move on to new victims.
He seems like a honest and sincere guy at first....but underneath lies a selfish jerk who only cares about himself.
I regret the day I ever meet him.