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How would you handle this one?
« on: July 05, 2008, 05:31:50 AM »
Mark from New Jersey has asked me what to do ?  Now I'm asking you !  Mark had met Ashley in Yahoo chat almost a year ago.  For the past year they have emailed and sent messages back and forth.  Mark finally met Ashley for the first time last week.  He flew 500+ miles to meet her.  Ashley has sent a photo to Mark .. an old one and told him that she was a little fluffy.  A little fluffy turned out to be
5' 6" and 350 lbs.  Mark is devistated that she lied !  Mark tried to explain that he is not the kind of guy that judges people by their weight but.... 
What would you do? Let us know !
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Re: How would you handle this one?
« Reply #1 on: July 16, 2008, 06:46:37 AM »
First and foremost demand to see the person on cam to confirm they are who they say they are.My cyberpath since I quit chatting with him has appeared as vast and various id's.When I ask for cam of course he claims no cam Until now he has learned to use cam capture and will put on his cam but instead of it being him its someone hes taped and sends that cam view.Alas I learned to use my yahoo web cam logs and check the ip that the cam is coming from and lo and behold it's him!...If this lady feels the need to lie about her looks and build you can trust me she WILL be a liar in ALL other aspects of her life.I say move on and explain to her you can no longer chat with someone who can not be honest about even the smallest things in her life..good luck