Not who they claim to be

I too chatted with a man over seas.After 3 years I learned he was also using an id of a 15 year old boy to chat up lil girls! When I confronted him,of course he denied! Before I learned of his sick twisted fetish he had made my life a living hell! Of course he only could do this as I permited it to happen!I'd say the majority of these over seas men are ONLY looking for a cam session and cyber sex! They will lie and coax you if you are vulnerable as these men have been doing this for years.saying I love you to you means NOTHING to them it's a game and nothing more.But to use the net as means of luring children is not only a crime it's sick and twisted!Most prey on the asian ladies that are desperate to get out of thier countries so hence they compromise thier standards and morals to these cyberpaths in hopes of love and a visa.These men know this so they exploit these women.I am not one of them I was just a silly naive newly divorced woman at the time I chatted with my cyberpath.Anyways..never trust these men that are evasive and that go offline for weeks and then appear as if nothing had happened.Do not for ONE minute believe YOU are the Only one they chat and lie to!To make a long story short I have exposed my cyberpath on various sites as I can not live with myself knowing he is into children.The rest of his crap he did to me ..is now nothing more than a lesson learned.I've moved on and no longer trust ANY man on here until I am 100% sure of who he is and what he is all about.So ladies PLEASE be careful you never know what sort of sick pervert iyou may be chatting to.TY..